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epic strawman
"Keep it to yourself" was followed by "talk about it if the situation calls for it/it is absolutely necessary to you"
There is a need to keep stuff like that to yourself because people don't want to hear about it unless they ask most of the time. It's not prime conversation material to talk about how you got your throat railed by Jim down the street yesterday, y'know?
Parents are people just as much as they are parents, and they won't support literally EVERYTHING you do, think or say blindly just because they are parents, nor will they feel comfortable talking about everything you feel comfortable about. It is just as respectful to not talk about sexual identity and encounters as it is to do it.
It's one of those subjects where you need to take the temperature of the room and figure out if discussing stuff like that is acceptable, or if they would prefer not to talk about it while still supporting you for who you are.
"What goes on in the bedroom" is not a sexual thing beyond being a saying for which way you swing
Jesus Christ, read before you freak out.
However you're making it out to be something sexual?
I told my mother I'm bi and no I didn't tell her about my sexual encounters or how or how much I fucked my ex what the fuck lmao.
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yeah but the rest of us are saying theres no need to aswell
especially if one doesnt feel comfortable doing it or are afraid of consequenses
its literally one of the most harmful things the lgbt community does is convince people "coming out is the right way, you need to do it" because in some sad cases it can really harm the person
As I'm saying too, we're saying the same thing but I'm saying parents deserve (at least, the good caring ones, I know some people have a difficult relationship with their parents) to be told about personal stuff since they earned that trust