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I think I'm pan then. Never thought about it.Bi keeps the idea of sexual attraction solely operating within a strictly male-female binary, pan operates without the binary being a factor.
I just wanna kiss someone whose nice
Sorry to tilt the conversation away from nice things, but I had a pretty creepy experience today where some guy offered me forty bucks to let him "do stuff". Very unnerving, dude had his hand on my shoulder and shit, followed me for about a block afterward. Feel a bit ashamed that I was so passive throughout the whole thing and didn't tell him to fuck off from the get-go. Anyone have experience dealing with this kinda thing, because that's a fun end of town and I don't want to be on edge going round there
yeah ive had a few run ins with creeps like that, one personal and others where ive had to come to the aid of friendsSorry to tilt the conversation away from nice things, but I had a pretty creepy experience today where some guy offered me forty bucks to let him "do stuff". Very unnerving, dude had his hand on my shoulder and shit, followed me for about a block afterward. Feel a bit ashamed that I was so passive throughout the whole thing and didn't tell him to fuck off from the get-go. Anyone have experience dealing with this kinda thing, because that's a fun end of town and I don't want to be on edge going round there
Lol honest question but whats the difference between bi and pan? That's what really confuses me because everyone has different opinions. I view bi as in, i like both genitals, pee pee and vagoo. Is pan then just like, you like genders regardless of downstairs? But doesn't that serve the same purpose as bi, just that you're romantically driven? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Yes, kind of. I remember going to a French school trip to the cinema and we had to watch this French movie. So, on our way there, I arrived super early and I stood by waiting about 1h. Next thing I know, there's this girl I'm unusually familiar with and I'm trying to know who it is. Eventually, I figure it out, but by that point, she kept looking at me too. Two weeks go by and I get to talk with this guy who claims that a girl had a really fun time with me at the cinema and so he gave her my number. I'm like "???" and welp, sure enough, the guy (who's a nice friend of mine) pulls up my phone and starts texting her and she replies and shit (Mind you, I thought he wasn't texting her so). It goes on and on, and I don't mind because I was certain it was just horse shit, didn't pay much mind to it. The following days, I get texts and phone calls from her and I start feeling kinda curious on who it is. My friend tells me there's this same girl who wants to have sex with me so I'm like "no man I have someone" and sure enough it keeps going.Sorry to tilt the conversation away from nice things, but I had a pretty creepy experience today where some guy offered me forty bucks to let him "do stuff". Very unnerving, dude had his hand on my shoulder and shit, followed me for about a block afterward. Feel a bit ashamed that I was so passive throughout the whole thing and didn't tell him to fuck off from the get-go. Anyone have experience dealing with this kinda thing, because that's a fun end of town and I don't want to be on edge going round there
Yes, kind of. I remember going to a French school trip to the cinema and we had to watch this French movie. So, on our way there, I arrived super early and I stood by waiting about 1h. Next thing I know, there's this girl I'm unusually familiar with and I'm trying to know who it is. Eventually, I figure it out, but by that point, she kept looking at me too. Two weeks go by and I get to talk with this guy who claims that a girl had a really fun time with me at the cinema and so he gave her my number. I'm like "???" and welp, sure enough, the guy (who's a nice friend of mine) pulls up my phone and starts texting her and she replies and shit (Mind you, I thought he wasn't texting her so). It goes on and on, and I don't mind because I was certain it was just horse shit, didn't pay much mind to it. The following days, I get texts and phone calls from her and I start feeling kinda curious on who it is. My friend tells me there's this same girl who wants to have sex with me so I'm like "no man I have someone" and sure enough it keeps going.
Eventually, I had to text her to fuck off and to never talk with me again because she used to stalk me in school and always greet me with "Hey, Alex." with a goddamn wink and a perverted smile. No thanks, no no nono. I'm fucking good on how I am. Jesus.
I feel a bit bad, though. I think she has some issues or whatever it is and I was a bit kind with her in the past (Like in the first times when she greeted me, I did too since we went to that French school trip)why do people think stalking is ok wtf
last post here for tonight and idk why but i just wanted to tell you guys that even though i get heated sometimes while debating stuff i still love and respect you all
and i know these posts look like a poor attempt to be wholesome but i genuinely mean it, this community is like a long lasting group of friends to me and especially the kind of people who have passed in and out of this thread a lot
no matter how upset i might seem at you guys sometimes youre all respected, loved, valid, and fun people and i dont want any of you to change
I feel a bit bad, though. I think she has some issues or whatever it is and I was a bit kind with her in the past (Like in the first times when she greeted me, I did too since we went to that French school trip)
If you’re from a state that allows it start carrying a handgunSorry to tilt the conversation away from nice things, but I had a pretty creepy experience today where some guy offered me forty bucks to let him "do stuff". Very unnerving, dude had his hand on my shoulder and shit, followed me for about a block afterward. Feel a bit ashamed that I was so passive throughout the whole thing and didn't tell him to fuck off from the get-go. Anyone have experience dealing with this kinda thing, because that's a fun end of town and I don't want to be on edge going round there
why do people think stalking is ok wtf
If you’re from a state that allows it start carrying a handgun
I can give recommendations:grinning:
That didn't read like stalking to me. Sounds like there were some mixed signals and his friend meme'd him in the first place by texting her with his phone.
guess so, bit of an ass move from his mate tho wtf
Eh, without knowing his intentions it's hard to say he was being an ass, maybe he just wanted his friend to get laid y'know. Dingus not intervening because he "thought nothing of it" just makes him look like he's playing hard to get to a girl who is getting mixed ass messages too lol.
Should have just texted her and said "Sorry my mate was just messin' I'm not interested x" before it got to the "fuck off" part.
idk i just dont think deceiving people about their feelings and such is nice dude
intentions or not, it never leads anywhere good
Eh I guess.
If Dingus is socially awkward irl I can't realllllllly blame his friend for giving him a bit of a shove at least to light that "spark" tbh but I'm also a devious son of a bitch who just kind of sees this as playing wingman, but with a phone.
I'm socially awkward and if someone did this I'd feel so bad for the girl it'd actually backfire on me pretty badly to be fair
These kind of situations make me feel bad because it's like "shit wh a a ttno opwaaasafsdsdf" and I just- eh, dunno, shortcircuit